Settled into 2011

i honestly feel so good - relieved, relaxed, whole - loven' who i am and what my life is!


if you have been following me for a bit - you know my last few months in 2010 have been tragic, sad, cumbersome, tedious, scary, overwhelming, trying, emotional, blah blah (what could of happened, happened)


i've taken that time to refocus my energy on all the good in my life, rid of all negative energies, and set myself up for success!


i had to reevaluate relationships in my life, choices i have made, and let go of any past i might of held onto 


i'm settled into 2011 just perfectly right now - 10000% in the right mind, positive thinking, and good vibing energy!


i know it might sound hocus-pocus with my talk - but i truly believe in the Buddhist way of thinking - i'm Catholic but i live my life in the Buddhist light


i really believe in the way you think reflects the way you live and view your life


i choose to be happy, worry free, relaxed, good willed, chance taker, opportunity maker, loved, peaceful, and most importantly ME!


if i can't be "me", who will? - so HELLO 2011 i'm glad we finally have met; i hope you like ME as much as i like you! - now please play nice 2011, 2010 played dirty at the end!



HOW ARE YOU FEELING ABOUT 2011?!?!
will this be the year of YOU?!


My Life - Weekend
it's SNOWING today again in Jersey and gonna keep up until tomorrow sometime - so getting home from work today will be fun! - then it's gonna be movie night with me and my pups! - tomorrow if it's not too bad out i told my Niece that i would come over with Joe and build a snowman with her - so i'm pretty stoked about that - then Sunday it's her build-a-bear & house 5th birthday party - SO excited for that, i truly am so lucky that i get to see my sunshine almost every single day - best feeling in the world is being an Aunt to my niece Caitlyn! :o)

HAPPY WEEKEND BUTTERFLIES!


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51 comments:

  1. Erika,
    Great attitude! I absolutely believe that our outlook creates our destiny. There are bumps along the way that we can not predict but I think sometimes that those are what cause us to slow down, to re-evaluate and to appreciate...you too? Hoping that your 2011 is amazing! Also, I think your niece might be one of the luckiest little girls I "know!" What a wonderful role model you are to her. Enjoy your weekend, it's snowing here in NY too!

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  2. Erika,

    Happy New Year! This post makes me so happy. Full of hope and promise. I truly believe positive attracts positive and if that is any indication, I think you will have a fabulous 2011! I am excited about the possibilities myself. After several very difficult years, 2010 was a bright shining light. I am hopeful that 2011 will be that and much much more! (PS - Good luck with the snow!)

    Emily

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  3. Erika, I so agree with all that you said. I think our lives are a gift and we should unwrap them as such. With anticipation and surprise. Once we open a gift we might not always like what is inside but we must always show gratitude and thankfulness. Afterall it is a gift that we have life at all!!! I am sooo looking forward to 2011 and what ever it gives me. My journey is always interesting and with hindsight I am often given the opportunity to see some of the Whys!!
    This year is going to be a year of anticipation for self-inprovement for me. Have a weekend full of wonderfulness with your sweet niece, kathysue

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  4. I completely agree Erika! Positive thoughts and mindset equal positive results. Here's to a wonderful New Year with tons of positive results!!!

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  5. Way to go, girl! I love your spirit...Its totally true that only we ca make it happen....Glad you are feeling wonderful and wish you an amazing day and fun over the weekend
    Hugs and kisses

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  6. What a great post - and I'm sure 2011 will be your year with such a positive attitude! I really need to stop being so pessimistic...

    xoxo ~ Courtney
    http://sartorialsidelines.blogspot.com

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  7. You're an inspiration Erika! Love your positive attitude! Beautiful post too! XX

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  8. Absolutely gorgeous post, darling!
    I feel the same way you do!

    xoxox,
    CC

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  9. Wonderful attitude! It's easy to live by that when everythings great but after going through what you have recently, it's awesome! I wish I lived that close to my nephew. Have a great weekend!

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  10. What a fabulous attitude lady! I'm also feeling very hopeful about the promise of 2011!

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  11. Beautiful photos and beautiful words of wisdom. You're an inspiration and I hope that 2011 offers you plenty of joy! The Build a Bear party sounds fun!

    xo Emily

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  12. Happy Weekend to you! Here's to an awesome year. You have an awesome start and I am so excited for you!

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  13. What a beautiful post! I hope 2011 treats you better than 2010. Also, I'm totally envious that you get to see your niece all the time. I only get to see mine a few times a year but I guess that's my own fault for moving away. But either way, enjoy every moment together! Happy weekend!

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  14. I love this post Erika - excellent perspective to live a contented life. Go girl!! Have a blast with your niece :)

    xo,
    C

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  15. That's a wonderful philosphy Erika! I have always admired your positivity and spirit so much! Have a lovely weekend!

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  16. Life is what you make it and life can be challenging. :) Love your photos!

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  17. Hi Erika,

    Thanks for stopping by my blog so that I can find you .. You have an amazing blog and I would be happy to follow you. Would you like to follow me back?

    P.S. Amazing post - I love the attitude in the beginning of the year. I sort of feel the same way - here is to a grand 2011!

    Have a fabulous weekend! The snow is coming my way :)

    xoxo

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  18. I'm feeling great about 2011 also. I always said "I wish I could be more___!" But lately I'm been thinking, why don't just become ___??! If I want to be more put-together/positive/forgiving why don't I just DO it! A great way to think of life, for sure.

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  19. woooh this post makes me so happy :) You have a great attitude and I'm sure 2011 will be a fabulous year for you... :) Your blog is awesome, I should come here more often sweetie!
    Thanks for the comment :)

    xxxx

    lifeisroyalty.blogspot.com

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  20. Heres to a wonderful weekend. It might snow here too which could put a damper on the Seahawks game for the boys.

    AS for 2011? Bring it on.

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  21. Hey thanks for the comment, love the photos :)

    http://teapothonor.blogspot.com/

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  22. hello, im your new follower! im totally diggin your blog <3 i feel FANTASTIC about 2011. i also "really believe in the way you think reflects the way you live and view your life..." i had a horrible 2010 too and im sooo ready to kick 2011's butt!

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  23. I hope 2011 is everything you're dreaming of (: Happy Friday! And we're supposed to get snow here, too!! xo

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  24. what fantastic words to usher in the new year!

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  25. Amazing post! Hope 2011 is everything you hope! Have a fabulous weekend!

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  26. You have such a fantastic attitude about everything! 2010 was also a tragic, sad year for me. There were awesome points - graduating with my Bachelors, getting engaged - but the last 6 months were horrible - I had two grandparents and my cat pass away. I'm ready for 2011!!!

    Now following!!!

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  27. love the last photo - too cute! thank you for your sweet comment on our blog! and yes we would love to follow you if you would follow us too :]

    we'll be back to visit you soon!
    xo, camilla & valerie
    abutterflybyday.blogspot.com

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  28. Erika, daaaahling! I'm so happy to read about your positive attitude for 2011. I bet this will be a super great year for you because you will make it happen! Enjoy your weekend, doll.

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  29. your blog is gorgeous!
    I'm your newest follower : )
    oxo

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  30. I'm sorry your 2010 ended badly, but praying for you a great 2011! New follower ;)

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  31. E- Great perspective on the year past and the year present/future. I see great things happening for you in 2011 bc with that attitude you can't go wrong!

    Thanks for the visit!

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  32. This was so lovely to read. i am just so happy for you. i agree that our positive thinking makes up so much of what our lifestyle is like.
    i hope the rest of 2011 will be just as good as the first week has been - it sounds like it will be :) x

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  33. happy new year erika! :)

    i love your outlook, and i totally agree you get back what you put out! i am praying for your family, and asking for the millions blessings you deserve.

    xx,
    jenna

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  34. Inspirational post! Thankyou for your lovely comment, I'll follow you!
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  35. This was a very inspiring post. Happy Birthday to your niece!

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  36. I love your outlook for 2011! I know it'll be a good year, for both of us:-) Lol. Have a fabulous weekend my blog friend!

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  37. Hi doll! i would love to follow you! very cute blog- great pictures
    come back to visit me soon :)

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    xoxo Summer.

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  38. YAY for a great 2011 so far! I seriously hope it stays that way for yoU!!!!

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  39. so glad to hear how happy and positive 2011 sounds for you :) this post is really nice...love the pics you chose too.

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  40. Really lovely post full of inspirational pictures and message! I feel pretty optimistic and positive for the new year too, it's the only way to be really! Hope that this year works out much better for you! Happy new year!

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  41. I felt the absolute same way as you in 2010. I was in a dark place but 2011 is going to be bright. So far, it is. I hope you are having a great start to your 2011 as well.

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  42. I've been studying Buddhism as I'm taking a trip to Asia this year and I think it offers a fantastic perspective on life. All the best to you in 2011!

    -Danielle

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  43. I love your way of thinking!! It's so positive!! It's been a rocky few last months for me too & it's beginning to quiet down. I'm a catholic too but I respect the buddhist way of thinking too. It's very calming. I wish you all the luck in the world Erika & continue to think positive! *BIG HUGS*

    Melanie's Randomness

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  44. Erika, love this post and love your positive energy and mindset and yes I do agree-it will make a difference. I am so glad things are turning around for you and I wish you a wonderful and healthy 2011!

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  45. pretty, pretty pictures! loved this entry! following you now, hope you can follow me back =)

    http://fashioneggplant.blogspot.com

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  46. very happy to know that the new year's begun on a good note for your dear Erika.

    i feel very positive too about this year and much better armed to face any potential challenges :)

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  47. what a great attitude hun!! let's make 2011 awesome!! :)

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  48. I love your energy in this post Erika! Lets have amazing 2011, k? xoxo

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  49. So well said.. I'm thinking I'm the focus of this new year, it's time!! x

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  50. What a beautiful, inspiring post! Your positive attitude will take you far in 2011!

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